What does it mean to document my evidence?
Documenting your evidence means that you are taking steps to do the following:
- safeguard proof you have of the abuse, such as:
- printing out emails that show evidence of abuse;
- taking screenshots of text messages or social media posts;
- printing photographs or cell phone records;
- accurately record incidents of abuse as they happen in a log, including:
- the date and time of each incident;
- what the abuser did or said;
- what actions, if any, you took; and
- what witnesses or evidence you have that is related to the incident; and
- not change the evidence at all. So, for example, let’s say the abuser sends a threatening email that is unsigned. You cannot add his/her name to the email just because you know that s/he wrote it.
Documenting your evidence correctly can be crucial if you later need to produce it for a court hearing or other legal matter.