Restraining Orders

Carefully fill out the petition. It is an important legal document. Read it carefully and ask questions if you don’t understand something. When you fill out the forms, you will be called the “plaintiff” and the abuser will be called the “defendant.” When you write about the violent acts, use descriptive language to say what the abuser did to you. Here are just some examples of descriptive words: slap, hit, grab, choke, threaten, etc. Be as specific as you can. Include details about when and where the abuse happened, the fear or pain you felt, and any injuries you had. A domestic violence organization may be able to provide you with help filling out the forms.  See our IA Places that Help page for the location of an organization near you.

Do not sign the form when you are finished. It must be signed in front of a notary public. There should be a notary public in the courthouse. Be sure to bring some form of identification, like your driver’s license or another ID that has your picture.